woobersPlease see my departing comments on the March 5 posting by CrossDenise.
By the way, I'm already well into my second half-century, so I wouldn't consider myself still young.
woobersWell, you can read almost anything. Attempting to assign a common "reason" for the behavior of ANY large subset of people (such as crossdressers, or for that matter crossdresser bashers) is not usually viable if one seeks the truth. There are numerous "reasons" why people exhibit any particular behavior.
Speaking of "infantile obsessions", it seems to me that deliberately and consistently seeking out the crossdressers on this site merely to make disparaging remarks about them is not exactly mature.
woobersAs far as the selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitors go, they are truly dangerous. For example, in almost all of the school shootings perpetrated by teenagers over the past decade or so, the perpetrator had been on an ssri drug, or the attorneys refused to divulge that information. One wonders why they are still on the market and so over-prescribed.
woobersI am uncertain what you mean about "hard in these pics". I haven't posted any pics of myself, so it can't be that, and usually the pictures of crossdresses don't get me hard either. What arouses me more than anything is seeing other folks in sexual ecstacy - particularly the moment of orgasm, and ESPECIALLY females in the moment of orgasm - convincing pictures of which are a truly rare commodity. My absolute favorite sexual activity is licking my wife to orgasm.
I thought I had explained the nature of the word fetish. I believe you are misusing the term. If I needed to dress up to acheive sexual arousal, then it would be considered a fetish.
I am of course, fully aware that neither of us is likely to change the other's mind on this topic. We all have our little perversions (whatever that means) so I try not to be too judgemental toward those whose idiosyncracies are different from my own.
A sarcastic enlightenment?
woobersI’m going to post this in the correct order.
Now who would have thought a simple set of pictures would generate so much verbiage, but then I guess I started it.
To address both Godfather’s and Shvederic’s comments:
Actually, for me, dressing in women's clothes has almost nothing to do with sex. I seldom "dress up" to have an orgasm, whether with my wife or alone. If you cannot accept that crossdressing has had a positive impact on my personality, then I'd suggest that you become better informed. Personality changes such as mine are well documented. It may be that it allows a dormant set of personal attributes to manifest themselves. I didn't know either until it happened to me, then I started studying the phenomenon. Also, a fetish (in this context) is something one does for sexual arousal, and usually is considered necessary for arousal, which is not true in my case, although certainly it is for some crossdressers.
woobersAs for dressing in public, I absolutely would wear dresses to work if our society was not so condemnatory of harmless behavior it deems “unusual”. If I worked in Berserkeley (that’s across the bay from San Francisco) instead of in the deep south, I’d probably do it anyway. I possess insufficient courage to go out in public where there are lots of insane drunken rednecks with large projectile weapons (like .44 magnums) that might just decide to use me for target practice.
Concerning what is appropriate in a “forum such as this”, Crossdressing certainly seems at least as acceptable as people who punch holes through their genitals or inject ink under their skin, or clamp moustraps on their nipples or piss on each other or shove cucumbers up ther ass, etc. I don’t recall seeing any members of our cozy little group here making disparaging comments about those behaviors, but then I only read the comments on about 5% of the postings I look at.
TheGodfatherI can't speak for eric, but I would go to work naked before I would wear my mother's dress and panties. Don't even kid yourself into believing the two would be just as weird. Act like a man, not a sissy. You look ridiculous.
michaelasexis this a discussion forum or wath? The fact that we are on this site, in women clothes, rubing our dick or pussy, latex etc. its te way we express our sexual intrest. so shvederic instead of showing our penis on the Inet and think we are weird, go to work naked and visit your parents with cum on your dick . you will look as silly as al the rest of us.
TheGodfatherwoobers, You knew I was going to put my 2 cents worth into this discussion. Look, I'm all for you being able to do whatever it is that excites you in the privacy of your own home. But in a forum such as this, where people post pics and solicit comments, how could it come as a surprise that most people can't accept this as normal and comment as such. I'm sorry, but I can't accept the notion that you are a better person for dressing in woman's clothes. That makes about as much sense as a guy having a sex change operation so he can become a lesbian. Cross-dressing is a fetish, pure and simple. It is used to derive sexual pleasure. It is not a sociological issue, it is a sexual fetish. Don't expect the rest of society to think of this as just a little personality quirk and tell you how pretty you look in pink. You just look silly.
woobersShvederic, Part 3 (Part 2 is next, and the first is after that - I just discovered the character limit, which makes perfect sense, as does censoring URLs.)
And no, I've never really wished I had a vagina, although I have wondered at times what it would feel like. I like my genitals just the way they are, and so does my wife.
By the way, do you think a business woman dressed in a jacket, tie and trousers is bizarre? Probably not, because this is socially accepted in our society. It is another example of entrenched societal prejudice, being a specific variety of sexism.
I wish I had the statistic on the percentage of men that crossdress. I have seen it before, but a quick internet search did not uncover it. It is larger than you probably imagine. If I find this datum, I'll make a note in a later posting. Cheers!
woobersI first began this at a very late age as such things go (early 50's), but it made a dramatic change in my life for the better. My marital relationship improved tremendously (like by a factor of 10), and even folks at work have commented on my changed personality. (They know nothing of the crossdressing, of course.) I suppose you will thus think there is something wrong with me that i need to crossdress to be "normal". Well, from a young age, I've never been "normal", indeed viewing most people's behaviors and philosophies to be bizarre. And speaking of "humor" and "normal", if America's Funniest Videos is a true indication of what Americans find funny, then we are sick, since well over fifty percent of the clips involve people getting hurt. WHY IS THAT FUNNY? I fail to understand this.
woobersShvederic: Actually, my bio says my wife is very supportive, but it doesn't turn her on. That is VERY different from "doesn't understand". She does indeed understand, and in fact, buys most of my female attire and helps me shop. (And yes, some does come from Lane Bryant.)
I'd recommend that you educate yourself a bit more about those who crossdress if you wish to be a "social commentator" on the subject. A fairly good brief introduction can be found at
a URL that adultism censors (being new to this, I didn't know)
although it is rather one-sided and there are a few bits with which I disagree. If you like the address send me a PM. I assume it can go that way. I fit into the category of "femmiphile" more closely than the others, but it isn't exactly right. Wikipedia also has a pretty good overview of Crossdressing.
Besides that, if you really seek the ridiculous, try looking in Washington, DC, on BOTH sides of the aisle.
woobersOnce again, the same three people who obviously seek out the crossdressers so they can get their jollies by being critical. What a pitiful way to get enjoyment in life.
Personally, I like the first one the best, but they are all OK. How about some with an ankle-length skirt or dress. I'd give you a 10 on general principles except that the images are rather grainy when viewed full-size. As it is, how about an 8? I also find the squiggly face obscuration distracting, I'd rather it be simply blurred out or cropped. Also, it would be considerate to rotate your pictures into proper orientation before posting.
Please consider my comments and post more. I am on a quest to improve the quality of photography on this site, but I may be pissing into the wind.
hot4ui vote 10 !!!!!!!! wish u where into guys! You are a definent hottie!
bighairybobbywhats with all the guys dressed as birds on here...! 1!
TheGodfatherYes, please continue. It's like having the circus in town every day.
ohwowAwsome, You got shitdick an the old titty guy to be comment,Please keep having fun,Ya got a 10 from I
TheGodfatherAnother freak who's mommy didn't breast feed him, and who's daddy was overbearing. I'm sure wearing grand-mothers clothes make you feel pretty.
By the way, I'm already well into my second half-century, so I wouldn't consider myself still young.
Speaking of "infantile obsessions", it seems to me that deliberately and consistently seeking out the crossdressers on this site merely to make disparaging remarks about them is not exactly mature.
I thought I had explained the nature of the word fetish. I believe you are misusing the term. If I needed to dress up to acheive sexual arousal, then it would be considered a fetish.
I am of course, fully aware that neither of us is likely to change the other's mind on this topic. We all have our little perversions (whatever that means) so I try not to be too judgemental toward those whose idiosyncracies are different from my own.
A sarcastic enlightenment?
Now who would have thought a simple set of pictures would generate so much verbiage, but then I guess I started it.
To address both Godfather’s and Shvederic’s comments:
Actually, for me, dressing in women's clothes has almost nothing to do with sex. I seldom "dress up" to have an orgasm, whether with my wife or alone. If you cannot accept that crossdressing has had a positive impact on my personality, then I'd suggest that you become better informed. Personality changes such as mine are well documented. It may be that it allows a dormant set of personal attributes to manifest themselves. I didn't know either until it happened to me, then I started studying the phenomenon. Also, a fetish (in this context) is something one does for sexual arousal, and usually is considered necessary for arousal, which is not true in my case, although certainly it is for some crossdressers.
Concerning what is appropriate in a “forum such as this”, Crossdressing certainly seems at least as acceptable as people who punch holes through their genitals or inject ink under their skin, or clamp moustraps on their nipples or piss on each other or shove cucumbers up ther ass, etc. I don’t recall seeing any members of our cozy little group here making disparaging comments about those behaviors, but then I only read the comments on about 5% of the postings I look at.
And no, I've never really wished I had a vagina, although I have wondered at times what it would feel like. I like my genitals just the way they are, and so does my wife.
By the way, do you think a business woman dressed in a jacket, tie and trousers is bizarre? Probably not, because this is socially accepted in our society. It is another example of entrenched societal prejudice, being a specific variety of sexism.
I wish I had the statistic on the percentage of men that crossdress. I have seen it before, but a quick internet search did not uncover it. It is larger than you probably imagine. If I find this datum, I'll make a note in a later posting. Cheers!
I'd recommend that you educate yourself a bit more about those who crossdress if you wish to be a "social commentator" on the subject. A fairly good brief introduction can be found at
a URL that adultism censors (being new to this, I didn't know)
although it is rather one-sided and there are a few bits with which I disagree. If you like the address send me a PM. I assume it can go that way. I fit into the category of "femmiphile" more closely than the others, but it isn't exactly right. Wikipedia also has a pretty good overview of Crossdressing.
Besides that, if you really seek the ridiculous, try looking in Washington, DC, on BOTH sides of the aisle.
Personally, I like the first one the best, but they are all OK. How about some with an ankle-length skirt or dress. I'd give you a 10 on general principles except that the images are rather grainy when viewed full-size. As it is, how about an 8? I also find the squiggly face obscuration distracting, I'd rather it be simply blurred out or cropped. Also, it would be considerate to rotate your pictures into proper orientation before posting.
Please consider my comments and post more. I am on a quest to improve the quality of photography on this site, but I may be pissing into the wind.